Should bride, groom exchange gifts?

Q: Do my fiance and I have to give each other presents the morning of our wedding?

A: This one is completely up to you. Some couples give each other gifts to wear at the wedding, such as a pair of cufflinks for him or earrings for her. But this is by no means a requirement.

Extra presents are an easy cost to cut - and isn't marrying each other the best gift of all, anyway?

If you still want to exchange something, consider writing each other letters to open on the morning of your wedding. You'll cherish those words more than anything in a little box.

You can also surprise your fiance with a photo album full of your favorite moments together or a memento from your first date, such as a cocktail napkin from the restaurant or the ticket from the movie you saw.

Flower-free centerpieces for reception tables

Q: Floral centerpieces seem so "been there, done that." What are some other options for decorating my reception tables?

A: While floral centerpieces are still a popular choice, there are plenty of other ideas if you want to go flower-free.

Glass cylinders or wicker baskets filled with fruit make for colorful arrangements and work well for casual, outdoor receptions. Get a more glam look with a cluster of candles in different heights surrounded by crystals scattered on the table. Or go down-to-earth with small vases filled with herbs.

You can even use your theme as inspiration.

For a beach wedding, top your tables with jars of sea glass or colored sand. Sprinkle seashells or faux starfish to complete the look.

Going vintage? Place peacock feathers in vases for a '20s vibe or stack antique jewelry boxes and drape them with strands of pearls.

Almost any item you think is beautiful can work as a centerpiece.

Picking china patterns

Q: Do we really have to register for formal china?

A: Lots of couples are opting out of traditional registry items in favor of more practical swag. The only problem? You might actually want that fancy china down the road, and buying an entire set can cost thousands (yikes!).

One idea is to choose a china pattern that seamlessly mixes with everyday dishes. Team plain, white porcelain plates with bright orange or green salad bowls, or pair a fancy floral pattern with casual polka-dot dishes in the same color palette.

If the issue is that you don't think you'll find a formal china pattern that you like, think again. From whimsical swirl designs to mod stripes, the options are almost endless.

If you still aren't sold on the whole formal-china thing, that's OK, too. Just be sure you have enough basics for entertaining 12 people.